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Working out divorce arguments with mediators

On Behalf of | Sep 26, 2019 | Divorce |

Texan couples that have decided to split up will likely have a number of issues to work through during the divorce process. Because of how high tensions can rise when handling custody, alimony, or other such matters, couples may benefit from the aid of a divorce mediator.

What is a mediator, exactly? Encyclopedia.com states that they are a neutral third party whose job is to create a bridge of understanding between two or more additional parties. In terms of divorce, it is the mediator’s job to facilitate discussion between everyone and ensure that the outcomes are acceptable by both halves of a couple. They can help do this by asking clarifying questions when necessary, requesting information to be repeated, and ensuring that one party is not talking over the other. They can also provide valuable input that is free from any bias from either side.

FindLaw reminds couples that mediators are only here to mediate the outcome of a divorce. For example, some people mistakenly believe that a divorce mediator’s job is similar to that of a couples counselor, which isn’t true. Mediators are only here to ensure that a couple reaches agreeable decisions on matters like spousal support, child custody, and how they want their shared assets divided. They are not here to help couples work through their relationship issues, nor is it their job to try keeping a couple from splitting up.

If a couple needs help reaching important decision-making milestones after deciding to split, however, they may want to consider seeking the counsel of a mediator. While this solution might not work for everyone, it can be a strong aid for some.