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How do I negotiate a child custody plan with my ex?

On Behalf of | Jan 12, 2022 | Child Custody |

Divorce or separation can be a difficult and emotional undertaking for the parties involved. Things become even more difficult when a child is involved. Besides focusing on their emotional well-being, you also have a responsibility to provide for their long-term needs and care. Child custody tends to be one of the most contentious issues, and most often results in hard feelings during the divorce process.

However, there are a few initiatives you can take to make child custody negotiation smooth and with an acceptable outcome for both parties. All you have to do is make the child’s best interest the primary focus during custody negotiation. With this understanding, you can go a long way in making the right decisions for the sake of your child.

Here are a few tips that can help you reach the best child custody arrangement with your ex.

Do not make your child a tool for revenge

It is not unusual for hard feelings to show up during the divorce process. The unfortunate outcome from this is that the child is always caught up in the middle. You have probably heard stories of parents who threatened to bar their exes from contacting their children. You should never put your child in such a position. Unless the child is in danger, cutting off visitation rights or barring the other parent from contacting their child will end up causing long-term damage. In fact, this can even result in loss of custody. Never turn your child into a tool for revenge when negotiating a custody arrangement.

Do not make everything be about money

Child support is meant to provide financial help towards the needs of the child in question. Most arguments and court cases tend to have their roots in spouses seeking large amounts from their exes in the name of child support. While financial support is necessary, it is even more necessary to appreciate the purpose for which it exists: to meet the child’s needs. It is important that you work with your ex-spouse towards a child support amount that both of you can afford and will be willing to pay.

Your marriage may be over, but your parental responsibilities are not. Coming up with a child custody plan that serves in the best interest of the child can have long-term benefits to everyone involved.