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Co-parenting with a difficult ex: 2 tips for success

On Behalf of | Aug 24, 2022 | Child Custody |

Divorce marks the end of a romantic relationship. However, if children are involved, both parents have a duty to participate in the children’s upbringing through a court-approved custody and parenting plan. But what happens when your ex is not cooperative?

It is not uncommon for parents to find themselves in the unfortunate situation of co-parenting without someone they do not see eye to eye with on pretty much everything. While putting aside past conflicts can be a challenge, it is important to make every effort to put your children’s best interests ahead of your own.

Here are two tips that make co-parenting with a difficult ex a little easier.

Be the co-operating parent

Co-parenting can be a huge challenge, especially if the breakup was acrimonious and there are unsettled scores. However, it is important that your children deserve to have a healthy relationship with both parents. Never drag the children into your relationship with your ex. Doing so will only hurt them in the long run. If there is a custody order in place, be sure to follow through with it. Do not deny the other parent their visitation rights or bad-mouth them in the presence of the children. By putting your children’s best interests first, you will ensure that they have a chance to thrive and enjoy a healthy relationship with both parents.

When necessary, document it

Record-keeping can be helpful if you find yourself in a situation where you have to get back to the court regarding your ex’s harmful conduct. A pattern of abuse, neglect or violation of an existing custody arrangement can be the reason for modification of the custody. However, without proper evidence, you will have a difficult time proving your case. If the other parent is abusive to you or the child, be sure to keep a record of the abuse.

Co-parenting requires genuine effort and intent from both parties. Find out how you can safeguard your rights and interests while co-parenting with a difficult ex.